The need to show sexual attraction in implicit ways was born in an era of strict rules and regulations, when the attitude towards the intimate process was taboo by moral codes and church standards. Both the man and the woman had to show their partner their readiness to take action without fear of the public and public criticism. It is in such cases that nonverbal cues have enabled learning about sympathy and desire.
Wanting a woman and not showing it is wrong, from the point of view of a normal man. Therefore, the potential partner, unconsciously or unconsciously, tries to show his interest to the object of desire through sexual gestures and positions.
When a man sees an attractive woman, he inadvertently starts betraying the "alpha male". Readiness for sexual intercourse means safe posture and showing a high tone of the physical condition of your own body. This is usually seen in the following manifestations:
- the man straightens his back and straightens his shoulders;
- trying to pull his stomach deeper;
- if a man stands, his legs are shoulder-width apart, which shows special stability and a strong position;
- it is also important to follow the position of the socks of a man's shoes, if he is interested in some attractive person, then they will be directed at this woman;
- if a man sits on a chair, he will inadvertently spread his legs and so, as if showing his genitals, ready to mate.
An excited man starts straightening his clothes and hair in the hope that his appearance will attract the woman's attention. Instead of an angular and heavy gait, he moves with lightning speed, like an athlete, while correcting the shortcomings of the figure, straightens and removes the abdomen
A glow appears in the eyes, the skin on the face automatically tightens, and the bags under the eyes disappear on their own. In general, passion makes a person much younger and really more desirable to a friend.
Now such a gesture is rarely used, and many have already forgotten it, but even fifty years ago thumbs put behind a belt for pants meant a rough, ostentatious action towards a woman, aimed at showing her own genitals.
The stagnation in man's view of the object of his lust speaks volumes. When he looks a woman in the eye for a little longer than the rules of decency dictate, it indicates his excitement and readiness for closer contact.
Factors affecting attractiveness
There are several factors that can affect the level of sex drive in men. This factor should include:
- Visual image. The fact is that the face of a beloved girl, the attractive smile of a stranger, as well as any other visual contact that has a sexual connotation, is able to excite a man. At the same time, after such signals, images of future sexual intercourse with a woman begin to appear in his head.
- The excitement of the smell. The fragrance has an exciting effect on the stronger sex, especially the natural feminine aroma has a similar property. Essential oils and pheromones are often involved in some mild pathogens.
- Hearing. Excitement from auditory contact is also possible. The sound of names, light whispers can have an aphrodisiac effect on men.
- Taste. Few people know, but the excitement can be increased by certain aphrodisiac foods that increase blood circulation in the genitals. These include nuts, seafood, bananas, honey and chocolate.
- He touches. Of course, the excitement of touch will be the strongest. In this case we are talking about a natural physiological reaction. Every healthy man will have an erection even after a short masturbation. Increased arousal during intercourse.
From the first touch
Touches have a strong character, sometimes they reveal a complete male desire to get closer to a partner. Pay attention to the guy's behavior: if he is interested in you, he will do everything to please even the smallest details. With short-term or spontaneous contact with the body or hand, the guy may feel a chill all over his body, which will speak of his excitement, an increased desire to occupy you.
If a young man has sympathy for you, he will do anything to show it in practice. They will unconsciously try to grab your hand, touch your knees, remove hair from your eyes, hinting at an increased desire to continue a pleasant evening.
Touch sometimes reveals much more than the eyes.
The trembling of the hands, the caution, the fear of frightening the partner immediately betray the excitement of the man.
Along with the touch he begins to utter pleasant words, fades, occasionally blushes, feels a wave of shivering when touching contact occurs. At that moment, information is created in the human brain, which directs its signals there, rather than what he "thinks" in such situations.
Signs of sexual arousal in men
Sexual arousal is a kind of stress for the body and is accompanied by an increase in blood pressure, rapid heartbeat and breathing, dilated pupils, so an indirect sign may be a certain emotion of a man, a rougher voice than usual.
Chiefa sign of sexual arousalin men, an erection occurs when the penis fills with blood, and it becomes hard, the pressure that can reach the arteries increases, which somewhat changes its shape and increases in size, ie. it becomes 6-7 cm longer and 2-3 cm increases in diameter and becomes hard. This allows him to insert himself into the vagina during intercourse.
But it happens that an erection does not occur due to various types of vascular diseases, smoking, diabetes mellitus or some kind of stress and nervous or mental disorders. All these diseases make it difficult for the arterial cells to relax, and as a result, sufficient blood flow is not ensured.
Excitation in men is much easier and faster than in women, and its strength depends on the presence of a sufficient amount of hormones and strength in the body. Also, the level of irritability depends on anthropology, for example, the short ones experience sexual attraction more than the tall guys.
Arousal in men can occur with just one thought of sex and also disappears quickly after its completion, in addition, you can arouse a man by flirting with him, exposing his body, etc.
If a man is very excited, then he has a conditionsexual arousalit disappears very quickly and the process of ejaculating takes place quickly. For men, in addition to various types of caresses, they also release sexual stimulants. They can be just one type of female genitalia and touching them, as well as the feeling that a woman is in an aroused state. They also include different types of auditory, visual and nasal stimuli.
In the process of sexual intercourse, in the process of rubbing his penis against the walls of the vagina, the nerve endings become even more irritated and as a result there is even more excitement, the man's face can start to turn red and he starts breathing often. If the friction stops for a short time, then there is a gradual outflow of blood and the penis begins to soften, if they continue, then an erection occurs again, which in turn allows you to prolong the process of sexual intercourse.
The greatest sexual arousal and the flow of pleasure in men is observed during orgasm and ejaculation, and it is highly divided into 3 stages: it is the gradual accumulation of arousal, the highest degree of arousal, ie. the orgasm itself and the phase of declining arousal.
Before the onset of ejaculation a man begins to feel the sweet contractions of the vas deferens and vesicles, these feelings last for a few seconds and are a sign of the beginning of orgasm. These contractions cease after the release of the seed under high pressure, and the high also ends. One. it only takes a few seconds.
After intercourse, the opposite process is observed, the so-called detumescence. At the same time, there is a rapid outflow of blood and a reduction in the size of the penis, and it becomes soft, but if a man is strongly attracted to a partner, then this process may take a little longer.
In men, as in women, after the feeling of orgasm, there is a feeling of refractory pause, this is the period when arousal does not come even after erogenous exposure. The duration of this period in men is different and can vary from a few minutes to several days.
Scientists have identified several factors for the normal course of the sexual intercourse process, among which are: - neurohumoral, ie. the process of blood flow, ensuring the influx of hormones, which contributes to the emergence of sexual desire and arousal; - mentally, contributes to the formation of an erection just before the beginning of intercourse; - erection, contributes to the stimulation of the penis - ejaculation, enabling ejaculation.
How do you know if a guy is horny?
Of course, for a permanent member. This is what many girls think. But this is wrong. After all, an erection may not be complete, not strong, or even absent when aroused. Therefore, staring blankly between the legs of his beloved is definitely not an option.
The boy's excitement is also manifested in such signs as:
- Accelerated breathing
- Talk about intimate topics;
- Cardiopalmus;
- Confusion of thoughts;
- A muffled voice.
Also, a young man may start touching or harassing you. It cannot be controlled. He seems to have drunk a little, though sober.
The pupils of such a person are dilated, and the appearance is a bit silly. Otherwise, arousal in girls manifests in a similar way.
In this case, it is worth considering the bigger picture. Excitement is manifested in everything. After all, if his heart just beats or he smiles often, that doesn’t mean it. that he wants you. Maybe the person is just shy.
Signs of arousal in men
There are several other indirect signs that he wants intimacy:
- Thirst. Unless, of course, it's really hot now;
- Inhibition, or conversely, great movement activity;
- Customizing your clothes, hairstyles, etc. ;
- Sucking the abdomen and straightening the back;
- Unexpected shame.
Also, a horny person will take your eyes off you, even if he is the most cultured guy in the world. And sometimes he can simply leave you (in the sense of home), scared of his feelings. This is possible on first dates. If you have not just met, then he would rather, in this state, go home to you.
And don't forget the dick. This is a (albeit stupid) but proven method. Try looking at it thinner than your waist. If "something sticks out", there is 100% excitement.
What's up guys?
A young person can be excited by almost anything. Starting with bare breasts, and ending with simple conversations. Male sexuality is designed in such a way that the desire for sex comes quickly and is transmitted through images. That is, he does not need a romantic evening and candles to wish you well.
Many do not know, but banal hugs attack guys. Indeed, during this process, the girl was pressed to her chest. That's why you shouldn't hug a friend often if you don't plan to receive him in your bed.
Remember that a guy can get involved: panties sticking out from under jeans, fishnet tights, a short skirt, a large neckline on a dress, tight pants, such as leggings, etc. Therefore, you should not wear anything honest if you do not want to be seen as a piece of meat.
Excitatory factors
Factors that affect arousal in the fairer sex are as follows:
- Love. The most important pathogen for women is this feeling. Girls should always whisper kind, gentle words in her ear. At the same time, love wins not only in words, but also in deeds. Therefore, one should not be stingy on generous knightly deeds.
- The smell of a man. This factor largely determines the possibility of interaction between a woman and a man. In this case we are talking about natural pheromones. If we are talking about perfume, then here you have to approach very carefully, carefully choosing one or another fragrance for yourself. Therefore, a man should not skimp on such an important aspect.
- Appearance. This factor is also of great importance for excitement. A magnificent representative of the stronger sex who goes to the gym, takes care of his body and health is already interesting for a woman. In addition, you need to monitor the condition of your hair, nails, and even clothes. A woman can be excited by a nice tie, a nice suit, a slightly unbuttoned shirt, real underwear and much more. It should also be noted that some women can be aroused by slightly pointed stubble, hairy and strong arms, and the feeling of a male axis. As for the latter, it is already prescribed by nature.
- Situation. Of special importance for excitement is the environment, meeting or date. Many people always strive for the best, the arrangement of things in this case is no exception. Music should also be included, which can add more euphoria to the meeting, a beautiful place, delicious dishes, which include the aphrodisiacs described above.
Erogenous zones
Some women assume that there is only one erogenous zone in the male body, in the groin area. In fact, everything is a little different. There are many more erogenous zones in the body of the stronger sex. To adjust your partner to intimacy, you will need to turn on your imagination and resort to help not only with your hands, but also with your lips.
Where are the erogenous zones in men:
- Face and neck area. Scientists have been able to prove that these places are very sensitive. Stimulation of these zones will help to awaken the gentleman's desire. You can touch your neck with your fingertips, massage your earlobes and kiss your loved one on the face.
- Chest and back. Sexologists recommend that you start flirting with your loved one, alternately touching the surface of his back and chest. You can also use the boy's shoulders, it is advisable to gently massage, making wave movements. The back is massaged along the entire spine, the touch is soft and smooth. But often it is enough just to approach the man from behind and cross your arms over his chest, towards the lower abdomen.
- Warts. This erogenous zone is distinguished by its high sensitivity. Touching this area can give your partner pleasure and can cause discomfort. Because the sensitivity of each of the stronger sex is a purely individual matter.
- Stomach. This is an area that requires special attention. You can touch it with your hands, lips, and even your head. Crown massage is widespread in Thailand and beyond. It is performed according to certain rules: the girl sits on her partner, tilts her head and touches the top of the head of his stomach, making circular movements. The diameter of the circle gradually increases. Such a massage will not only excite a man, but will also increase his sexual activity.
- Hands and fingers. To stay in bed with your loved one for a long time, you must pay attention to the palms of his hands. They can be: rubbing, kissing, ironing. There are nerve endings on the fingertips, they improve the transmission of impulses to the brain.
- The inside of the thigh. To quickly set your partner in the right mood, it is worth doing a foot massage, certainly affecting this area. Blood flows through the arteries to the organs of the reproductive system, foot massage will improve blood flow and provide a long-lasting erection. For this reason, it is resorted to in the treatment of impotence.
How to quickly excite a loved one in bed with your hands and caresses? To do this, you need to hug your breast partner with your hands and press his back with your bare chest.
In order for "everything to work", and for the partner to be delighted with the intimacy with his beloved, you need to be liberated, to be active. The main thing is to feel the man, it will allow you to anticipate his desires, to read the most hidden thoughts.
Should the guy be horny or is he already horny?
There are many ways to check if your lover currently wants sexual contact. As you know, an erection is the most striking sign of male arousal, however, this, of course, is not always possible to verify. Therefore, it is worth knowing a few more, less noticeable details that will reveal the secret desires of your partner.
- Physiological signs. During arousal, small changes in the work of the male body begin to appear - the pulse speeds up, sweating increases, and slight trembling of the hands and voice is possible. The latter, by the way, often becomes low and a little hoarse, taking on some velvety and playful notes.
- Sight. If a guy craves you, he will literally eat your body with his eyes. In general, the state of male arousal is similar to a light trance, which will not be difficult to catch in his eyes.
- Posture and gestures. A man burning with sexual desire will always keep his body facing you. Often, boys take the position of a self-confident macho, folding their arms at the waist and gently pushing their body forward, as if to show their dignity. Although this does not always work - it all depends on the character of the person and his self-esteem Pay attention to the position of the shoes - if the guy wants you, the socks of his shoes will certainly be directed in your direction
- Talk. If a man’s thoughts are preoccupied with your body, there can be long pauses in conversations. This means that your lover is so preoccupied with fantasies about sex that the ability to think about anything else simply disappears.
Words and caresses
If your loved one is not in a hurry to bed, try to excite him with words. You may have a rich vocabulary and know your partner’s preferences, but you still feel uncomfortable whispering various phrases to him.
Words and phrases are chosen on an individual basis, much depends on the receptivity of the gentleman. But to achieve the best result, words must be supplemented with love.
Caressing is a broad term that can include arm, leg, kissing and other elements of the love game. Oral contact is also called caressing, however, as is intimate massage.
If the decision is made to comprehensively influence the loved one, then you can combine affection, kisses, caressing with words. This will allow the man to reach the peak of arousal faster.
If all of the above methods do not work, then you should consider using a pathogen. Aphrodisiacs, lubricants, tablets and creams work as such a medicine. But it is better to coordinate their use with a partner - it will help to avoid embarrassing situations.
Signs of clear attention
In fact, it's not hard to see if a man wants you. It won't hide much.
It is important for women not to show their sympathy and to be modest, mysterious, intriguing and make men suffer in ignorance. But the stronger sex is regulated differently - its representatives are usually very direct, open and persistent
Most likely, a man will show signs of attention, because he doesn't just want a woman - he is certainly thinking about how to get her. And to achieve that, you have to keep an eye on her, give her nice gifts and flowers, say nice compliments and so on.
Sexual lust will make him choose special gifts and say special words. It will be different from romantic youthful urges, and will certainly have subtle sexual overtones. This way you can reliably and accurately understand what is on the gentleman's mind.
If he gave you sexy underwear, negligee or bathrobe - this is already an open offer, not even a hint. But that rarely happens, more often a man who wants a wife gives her very sweet trinkets - soft teddy bears, sweet jewelry, bouquets and sweets.
He suddenly became so beautiful. . .
Every man perfectly understands that he must be attractive, in order to fall into his strong embrace.
So he changed abruptly - he put on fresh shirts, he always smells good, and you don't remember when he was unshaven.
Appearance will give you a direct answer - if he always looks neat and fresh, goes to a meeting with you, he is likely to be attracted to it and hopes to get you.
The arms stretch like a magnet. . .
For every man, the female body is an object of admiration. And if a man wants you, then first of all he will experience an irresistible desire to touch. It is easy to distinguish simple, friendly touches from those with sexual connotations.
If his touches are gentle, very light, often as accidental, it is a clear sign of sexual desire.
It is also worth knowing the places that men's hands reach. This place is slightly below the waist (a well-mannered man will hardly catch you by the buttocks, although he will certainly have such a desire), hair and neck, face, wrists, hips, knees, legs.
Also, men are always very excited by the feminine scent. So you will be able to notice that the man is looking to smell you - to say something in his ear, while inhaling the scent of your hair, to kiss, to inhale the scent of perfume.
He is better than the others!
If you are in a common society with your chosen one, and there are other representatives of his gender, then he will obviously try to be better than the others.
Men are by nature leaders, conquerors, it is very important for them to be first. So he will do his best to be much better than others in order to achieve your location
In general, it will not be difficult for a woman to determine that a man wants her very much.
Everything in him betrays that desire: the eyes become as if dragging, the gaze wanders and cannot stand before your eyes, he is a little nervous, pays obvious attention and seems to look at you like a predatory animal
Even the most modest and timid guy will not be able to hide his desire. It is too strong and will continue to manifest in one way or another.
Another thing is how to use this knowledge. A woman is born to be admired, to be the object of lust and dreams.